It was kind of weird at the hospital because we were known as the "home birth" people. In fact I had a few nurses who were not so nice about it. One even said to my midwife, "Oh, you are the one who allowed her to give birth at home." My midwife was really great about it and said, "I usually don't allow people to give birth at home at 35 weeks, but we thought that she was further along than she was." I had another nurse say that he was just glad that we got him to the hospital when we did and that they really wish that we had given birth at the hospital. I would give birth at home again in a heart beat for a few reasons. One, it allowed me to stay in Will's room the whole time that he was there. If I had given birth at the hospital I would have had to stay in my room until discharged and only allowed to visit. Two, having Will at home allowed Creed to hold him before he was stuck under all the monitors and machines and lights. In fact Creed held Will the night he was born and then three days later. Nothing in between. Same with Elizabeth. Three, it was still cheaper for me to have him at home. All in all it was the right thing for us and I LOVED it.
In other news I am going to post a few things to help my memory. Madalynn took her first step on May 11th and then was walking by the 15th. She is talking a ton and can't seem to walk into a room without saying, "HI!" Sarah has gained two pounds in two months, which is HUGE for her. This helps us know that she is celiac and that she is starting to get the nutrients that she needs. She is drawing stick figures now and loves to try and write different letters. She is actually getting really good at a few of them.
3 comments:
So glad he is home safe and sound! Congratulations! Welcome to the crazy world of 3 kids. Just a little advice--with three, one is almost ALWAYS crying. Don't feel bad, that's just how it is with 3. :) How are you feeling?? Miss you!
My oldest was born at 35 weeks and spent time in the NICU too. He was in there for two weeks and he is a very healthy 7 year now. I know it's hard but just blow those negivate comments off. Everything turned out great. He's home and he's a beautiful healthy baby boy.
Congrats and welcome to being a mother of three!!!
I'm sorry! It's harder for me to keep up with private blogs than the public ones because I know when they post. BUT...CONGRATULATIONS! I am so so surprised that there was so much negativity at the hospital about your home birth. That just seems wrong to me. I know so many people who have done that! I would consider it too if I didn't have high risk pregnancies. I'm glad he's home and well now! How precious he is and I love his name!
Post a Comment